If you've spent hours replaying a conversation, trying to figure out if you really said what they claim you said.
If you've apologized for things you're not sure you did, just to make the fighting stop.
If you've felt your chest tighten every time you hear their footsteps, bracing for which version of them you're about to face.
If you've lost yourself so completely that you don't recognize your own voice anymore.
You're not alone.
Psychological abuse doesn't just hurt. It colonizes your mind. It makes you the enemy of your own thoughts, and turns the person you trust most into the architect of your confusion.
I'm not a therapist. I'm someone who clawed back clarity and self-trust after years of distortion. I've studied the research, learned the frameworks, and built tools I wish I'd had...for people still trying to make sense of what's happening, and for those rebuilding after.
Whether you're still in it or starting over, you deserve support that doesn't rush you or undersell what you're carrying.
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